Anberlin frontman Stephen Christian did an interview with Real Feels on the heated subject of taking video with your cellphone at a show. In the interview, Christian makes five really good points:

1. “You’re never gonna watch this.”

2. “You’re never gonna watch that, man.”

3. “You’re missing out on the actual moment of it all.”

4. “Maybe tape half a song, and then don’t tape anymore?”

5. “Do what you want—you paid to get in here. But you paid to get in here. Enjoy it!”

Watch the video below, and then we can all go back to crying about Anberlin’s breakup.